Wednesday, September 18, 2013

buttons



today i taught a math lesson with the help of a jar of buttons. (yes, buttons.) when my grandmother passed away a few years ago, there were a few things i took from her house as keepsakes…the jar of buttons being one of them. i’m guessing other people’s grandmothers had a similar collection somewhere their house. as a kid, i remember her getting this jar out when she had to “mend” something and she would sometimes allow me to play with them. i knew that i could use them for something in my classroom, or at home with my own kids and that is exactly what i did today. we are learning about sorting objects by size, so instead of only using the standard worksheet to teach the lesson…i handed each child a handful of buttons. it went something like this: when the children clean up from playtime each day, they know that math comes next. however, after i blew my train whistle (if the thought of me blowing a train whistle makes you laugh. good.), i walked to the front of the classroom and just stood in front of the room with the jar of buttons in my hands. most children usually take their good old time cleaning up after playtime, but upon seeing me standing there with a glass jar of goodies they were in quite a hurry to put away their toys. as they quickly returned to their seats, they were all shushing each other and sitting with their hands folded on their desks (showing me they were “ready”) because they just couldn’t wait to see what i was going to say or do with those little round gems in a jar.

i explained to the kids that we were going to sort the buttons according to size. i may have thrown something in there about them being magical. (it’s all about wording and enthusiasm, people!) we discussed what sorting meant (putting objects into different groups) and what size meant (how big things are) and then i started walking around and dispersing my wares. the kids were SO excited to get their handful of buttons. actually, most were losing. their. minds. there were giggles galore and just an overall air of excitement in the room. (over buttons!) as i passed them out, i allowed the children a good 10 minutes to explore with their hands before i asked them to sort them. most were running their fingers over them (fine motor skill practice), counting the holes in each one (counting practice), naming the colors of each one (color practice), discussing their buttons with other kids at their table (social and discussion skills), and just pumped they didn’t have a pencil in paper in front of them. this was different. (different is good.) after i allowed some time for exploration, i explained that i wanted them to make two piles, one for large buttons and one for small buttons. they happily got to work. every. single. child. was engaged in learning and every single child in my room was having fun. they were so bummed when i told them in was time to clean up, that i promised tomorrow we would use the buttons again for another lesson tomorrow. (cheers and high fives all around!)

i decided to share this story, because every year i have a handful of parents that are worried their little bill shakespeare or young al einstein is going to be bored in my class. i must say that i know parents don’t mean it to be hurtful sometimes…but, as a teacher, it is kinda insulting. it’s like me telling a mechanic that he didn’t put my tire on correctly, even though i know nothing about cars or tires. (and if you read my last story, you know damn well i do not know anything about tires.) it’s like me telling a nurse that they aren’t inserting the needle correctly, even though i never went to nursing school. now i know, there is a fine line here…because no one knows your child better than you. (i’m a mother, i know.) but there is a lot that goes on in the classroom that the parents do not get to see. lots of good stuff. lots of fun stuff. lots of educational stuff. lots more than just the worksheet that is sent home. parents (like you) need to know this. also, i treat all of my students like i would want my own kids to be treated. (and that’s the truth.) most teachers do the same. (most.) 

most importantly, remember the story about the buttons. it didn’t matter at what level each of my students were reading, what background they came from, where they went to preschool…when i stood there at the front of the classroom with my grandmother’s button jar, every single child was wondering what i was going to do next. (thus is the magic of teaching.) i could’ve stood up there and said, “get out a pencil and paper and we are going to do this worksheet together.” instead i said, “today we are going to use my grandmothers magical buttons! you are so lucky that you get to use them!”  like i said, each individual child was losing their mind. (thus is the magic of 5 year old imaginations.) as i wrapped up my button lesson, one of the kids told me it was best day of his life. (because he got to play and learn with buttons. that’s awesome.) i love that children get excited about things that seem trivial or mundane to us as adults. we should try to learn from these little people. get excited about the simple things, and try to let go of the things that bring you down. (at the end of the day, it’s really not worth it.) in short: buttons? yes. bills? no.

in closing, i took my own two imagination movers to target after work and had been rushing around to get a few things i needed. we had to go up an escalator to get into the store. as we hopped on, ella squealed, “WOAH, mommy! this is SO much FUN!!!” (moving stairs? yessss.) and so…after we were done shopping, we rode the escalator a few more times for good measure. (simple pleasures brought to you by a 3 year old.) then after dinner, we gave carrie an ice cream sandwich. i kid you not, she thought it was the best dessert she's ever had. (simple pleasures of a chubby 1 year old.) if these things don't get you excited, find something that does! live out loud and in a way that makes others excited about things as well. live like you are five years old and buttons are the best thing ever…cause really, it’s the only way to get the most out of life. kids (my own two and my students) remind me of this everyday, and as an adult sometimes it’s really hard to remember...mainly because of all the other nonsense we have going on in our (crazy) adult lives. so take a step back and embrace the simple pleasures that life has to offer; things like buttons, escalators....and let's not forget ice cream sandwiches.

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